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Private 1:1 Coaching · 3 or 6 months
The insight was the easy part. Living it is the work.
A weekend can show you the pattern. Changing it — for good, in the moments that actually count — takes practice, over time, with someone in your corner. That's what coaching is: private, one-on-one, built around your life.
Book a free Breakthrough Session
45 minutes, one-on-one. We'll map the fit together.
1:1Private & personalized
3 or 6 moReal change takes reps
Between sessionsSupport when it's live
3 or 6 moTwo ways in
Where coaching fits
The retreat starts it. Coaching is where it sticks.
Different tools for different jobs. Most men do both — but coaching is the one that reaches into your actual week.
The retreat
Immersion.
Three and a half days to see your patterns clearly and feel what a different response is like. A powerful start — in a controlled room.
Coaching
Integration.
Months of real reps in your real life — the argument that happened Tuesday, the conversation you're dreading Friday. Where the skill becomes yours.
What we work on
Built around what's actually costing you.
Every engagement is personal. Most men bring some mix of these.
Your relationship
Stop the fight you keep having with different words. Rebuild trust, closeness, and a connection that gives energy instead of draining it.
Communication under pressure
Say what you actually mean the first time. Leave hard conversations closer, not more resentful — and stop replaying them in the shower.
Fatherhood & family
Become the dad your kids feel safe around and the partner who's easy to be close to — instead of the one everyone walks on eggshells around.
Work & resentment
Leave work at work. Stop carrying the boss, the client, and the investor home in your chest every night.
How it works
Simple structure. Real accountability.
01
Regular 1:1 sessions
Recurring private calls with your coach, focused on what's live for you right now — not a fixed curriculum you sit through.
02
Practice between sessions
Specific reps to run in your real conversations, plus support when something hard comes up before the next call.
03
Momentum that compounds
Each month builds on the last. By the end you're not managing the pattern — you've replaced it.
Packages
Two ways in. Six months goes deeper.
Which one fits depends on how deep the pattern runs — and what it is costing you now. We work that out together on the call, and talk through the investment and payment options then.
Three months
A focused reset.
Pricing discussed on your free call
- Regular private 1:1 sessions
- Between-session practice & support
- Best for one specific pattern or relationship
- Momentum to break a stuck cycle
Best value
Six months
Deep, durable rewiring.
Pricing discussed on your free call
- Everything in the 3-month package
- Time to work across relationships, work & self
- Enough reps for the new response to hold under stress
- Priority access & deeper between-session support
Every engagement starts with a free 45-minute Breakthrough Session. We look at one real conversation, work out whether coaching is even the right next step, and go through pricing and payment plans there — no commitment either way.
Interested in the Private Coaching?
Leave your email and we'll send you the details — dates, what's included, and what to expect. No obligation.
Honest fit
Who coaching is — and isn't — for.
It's for you if…
- You've had the insight — now you want it to actually change your behavior
- You're ready to practice, not just talk about it
- You want privacy and a plan built around your specific life
- You're willing to look at your part, not just everyone else's
It's not for you if…
- You're in an active mental-health crisis — please see a licensed clinician first
- You want quick advice, not sustained practice
- You're not ready to do the reps between sessions
- You're not ready to take responsibility for the changes you want to see in your life
Reviews
From the men who've done the work.
Cameron D. senior software engineer
100% would do this again. It's cool just being able to connect with other guys and watch them grow.Read full review
Bash nonprofit executive
Being able to be vulnerable with other men in a way I've never been is what will keep me coming back.Read full review
Who you'll work with
A coach who's held the room.
Jason
CEO · Lead FacilitatorJason built the BTMB curriculum across dozens of workshops and retreats. Coaching is where he does the most personal work — one man, over months, in the situations that actually matter. This isn't therapy and it isn't advice. It's practice, with someone who's seen the pattern before.
Before you book
Quick answers.
Is this therapy?
No. We coach skills — we don't diagnose or treat. If what you need is a clinician, we'll tell you on the first call.
Do I need to do a retreat first?
No. Many men start with coaching. The two work well together, but coaching stands on its own.
Is it in person or virtual?
Sessions are private and can run remotely, so distance isn't a barrier. We'll sort logistics on the strategy call.
Which package should I pick?
Don't decide now. Book the free session — we'll look at what you're carrying and recommend the honest fit.
Next step
Start with a conversation, not a commitment.
Book a free 45-minute Relationship Pattern Breakthrough Session. We'll map what's really going on and whether coaching is your right next step.