Reviews from the men who have done this work — in retreats, in coaching, and in single sessions — plus a referral from a licensed therapist. They speak for themselves.
Cameron joined our retreat and shared what the experience was like for him.
Cameron D. senior software engineer
Read his full written review →Before Beyond The Man Box, my partner and I were fighting a lot. When I felt overwhelmed, I would yell because I didn't know how to tell her what I needed without getting angry. After doing this work, I started handling those moments differently. She feels more respected, we communicate much better, and we feel closer and more in love.
I want to first say that Jason creates a very welcoming, safe, and kind experience for any man he works with. When you are with him it feels like you are his #1 priority. He follows your needs. Many other coaches believe their one way of doing things is the only way, but Jason doesn't do that — he pivots to what you really need and it feels real. He listens and really gets to know you before he starts the guiding process.
In a single session, he was able to uncover one of the core pieces that I needed to still work with. And he holds space for it to be a discovery rather than a diagnosis. Asking questions, providing feedback, and letting you be the one to see. His patience is a superpower, giving monks a run for their money. And when you are activated, which we all get in this work, he meets you where you are, and as a guide helps you through it.
I am so grateful to have been able to work with him. I have a level of clarity about exactly what I need, and now the journey really begins. If you are a man who has been to therapy, tried many things, and feel like maybe you are the problem, I assure you that after spending time with this man, you will think very differently. His approach is refreshing and the experience of being seen by another man is real. He really does help you get out of the Man Box.
She always unloaded her problems on me, but she rarely asked about mine. I felt resentful and thought she was taking advantage of me. After working with Jason, I started speaking up about what I needed. She responded way better than I expected. Now we carve out time to talk about what is going on in my life, and our relationship feels much more fair.
Before this, I didn't even know there were tools for dealing with the fucked-up situations I get myself into. I figured you just deal with it. And when it becomes a nightmare you just power through. But by the end of working with Jason, I had real tools I could use with my wife, and I was mad the session was over. I wanted more!
Something I thought was valuable was the framework on how an emotionally intelligent conversation should go. Often, going into new conversations or tough situations with men, I had no idea how to act or what to say. Now I know whether I'm regulated or dysregulated, and I'm able to practice healthy vulnerability in real time.
When I felt crazy stressed, my usual reaction was to explode at my coworkers and then do the “I'm sorry” tour later. A week after working with Jason, a colleague suddenly quit, and I had to take on his workload, maintain my workload, train a new guy, and manage a new migration. It was crazy. I worked over 80 hours putting out fires. I was exhausted, but I didn't spend the week furious or take it out on everyone around me. Took me by surprise. The apology tour was able to go on PTO that week — ha. Beyond The Man Box helped me respond in a mature way I didn't think I was capable of before.
When my girlfriend and I argued, I would keep defending myself and trying to make her understand what I meant. I thought that should end the fight. But it always made things worse. After working with Beyond The Man Box, I completely changed how I showed up during conflict. I finally became a much better listener. It's made me a better person and a much better boyfriend.
I highly recommend Jason as a coach. He is incredibly well-attuned to the people he works with and has a natural ability to understand the challenges they are facing, particularly when it comes to relationships. He is excellent at helping individuals identify the barriers that may be preventing them from feeling fulfilled or connected in their relationships, while also helping them problem-solve in a practical and constructive way.
Jason doesn't just help people understand what may be going wrong, he helps them develop new skills, consider different approaches, and make meaningful changes that can improve the quality of their relationships. He brings a thoughtful, insightful, and solution-focused approach to his work.
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