Ways to work with us

Find your next step — from a free call to a life you don't need to escape.

Whether you're testing the water or ready to go all the way, there's a door that fits where you are right now. Every one of them starts the same place: a real conversation.

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Breakthrough Session
Free · 45 min
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Full-Day Workshop
Pricing on a call · one topic
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3-Month Cohort
Pricing on a call · primary program
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Private Coaching
Pricing on a call
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In-Person Retreat
Pricing on a call
Start here · everyone begins with this

A free 45-minute Relationship Pattern Breakthrough Session.

One-on-one with a BTMB coach. We'll find the pattern underneath what keeps repeating, and point you to the right next step — whether that's a workshop, coaching, the retreat, or nothing at all. You leave with clarity either way.

$0 · no pressure, no pitch-fest
For individual men

Pick the depth that fits.

Same work underneath — how much you take on is up to you. Prices are flat and all-in.

A focused day

Full-Day Workshop

One topic, all the way down — Work, Romance & Sex, Family, or Friendships.

Pricing on a call

Full day · small group

  • Framework, practice & real-situation reps
  • Take-home tools you use the next day
  • Lowest-commitment way to start
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Sustained 1:1 change

Private Coaching

Months of real reps in your real life, with someone in your corner every step.

Pricing on a call

Three-month or six-month packages

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You do not need more generic advice. You need to understand the exact pattern creating damage in your relationships and train a different response. We work directly with the conversations, conflicts, and relationships affecting your life right now — identifying what takes over when you feel criticized, rejected, ignored, embarrassed, controlled, or disrespected, then practising what to say, how to say it, and how to remain aligned with your values when the conversation does not go the way you hoped.

  • Regular private one-on-one sessions
  • Support between sessions when it's live
  • Built entirely around your life
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Total immersion

3.5-Day Retreat

A small group of men, a real curriculum, and distance from the life that made the pattern.

Pricing on a call

Pay in full or on a payment plan

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You step away from the demands of everyday life to examine the patterns shaping how you lead, communicate, handle conflict, and connect with the people who matter most. Through training, guided practice, and honest conversation you develop emotional intelligence and empathy alongside men equally committed to becoming healthier versions of themselves — and you have fun doing it. Shared meals, downtime, and space to laugh and rest are built in on purpose.

  • All lodging, meals & materials included
  • The deepest, fastest start there is
  • A group that stays in your corner after
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Not sure which is yours? That's exactly what the free Breakthrough Session is for.

For organizations

Bring the work to your team.

The same skills — regulation, communication, conflict — tuned for leadership teams, managers, and high-performing men at work. Every engagement is scoped to your people and outcomes, so pricing is custom.

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Half-Day WorkshopFocused training on one skill area Custom
Full-Day WorkshopBroader curriculum, deeper practice Custom
Offsite RetreatImmersive, residential format for teams Custom
Choosing

Which one is right for me?

I've never done this kind of work.

Start with the free session or a single workshop. Low commitment, real result — and you'll know quickly whether to go further.

I'm ready to actually change something.

Coaching or the retreat. The retreat cracks it open fast; coaching makes it stick over months. Many men do both.

Can I combine them?

Yes — the ladder is designed to build. A retreat plus coaching afterward is the most common path for lasting change.

Is any of this therapy?

No. We coach skills through practice. We don't diagnose or treat — and we'll say so if what you need is a clinician.

Still deciding

You don't have to pick right now.

Book the free session. We'll look at what's actually going on and tell you — honestly — which door fits.